How to Socialise Your Kitten

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How to Socialise Your Kitten 

Whether you've just welcomed a new kitten into your home, or you're preparing to adopt one, socialising them should be front of mind. Kittens are naturally curious and playful, but they need to learn how to interact with the world around them in a positive way. Introducing your kitten to a range of people, animals, and environments while they're young will help them become well-rounded and happy adult cats.

Why socialising your kitten is important

Socialisation is the process of introducing your kitten to different sights, sounds, and experiences to prevent them from being scared or anxious about them later in life. These early experiences should be positive ones, in order to build a positive association for the kitten. It helps them grow their confidence and bond with their human family, making them a happier pet.

Kittens that haven’t been properly socialised can develop behavioural problems in adulthood, such as shyness, aggression, or fearfulness around people, other animals, or children.

When should you start socialising your kitten?

The ideal time to start socialising your kitten is during their 'sensitive period', which is between two to eight weeks of age. During this time, they are more accepting of new experiences and less likely to develop fear towards unfamiliar people and environments.

If you've adopted an older kitten or a rescue cat, don't panic - it's never too late to start socialising them, you just need to be patient and take things slowly.

Best ways to socialise your kitten

Socialising your kitten is an essential part of their development, as it can help your kitten adapt to their surroundings and build trust with humans. There are a few different ways to do this, from interacting with them regularly, to introducing them to new people and pets. Just be sure to check that animals are full vaccinated before making introductions and ask people to wash their hands to avoid passing on any germs. By doing so, you can keep your kitten safe from potential illnesses that can be passed on.

Getting your kitten used to touch

One of the first things you can do when socialising your kitten, is to get them used to touch. Gently handle your kitten and pet them daily to help them get comfortable being around you. Ensure your kittens experiences are positive ones. This will help them bond with you and prevent them from being fearful or anxious around human touch.

During mealtimes

While your kitten is eating, stroke them gently and speak to them softly. Doing this during mealtimes helps your kitten associate touch with comfort and happiness, creating a positive connection between the two. But remember that all pets are individuals, so be sure to read your cat’s body language.

During playtime

Playtime is an excellent way of teaching your kitten social skills while having fun. Playing games with cat toys can help them learn how to interact with others and develop their physical abilities.

During quiet periods

It's important that you also give your kitten time to rest, so create a quiet space for them to retreat and relax when they need it. Over time your kitten will start to associate these moments of rest and calm with positive feelings and emotions, helping them develop into a well-balanced adult cat.

Introducing new animals and people 

Introducing your kitten to new animals and people is a key part of their socialisation. It's important to remember that kittens are naturally cautious animals, so take your time when introducing them, and be patient if it takes them a while to warm up. Introductions whether that be to new animals or people should be positive, in order to create a positive association for the kitten.

Introducing adults

When introducing your kitten to adults, it's important to let your kitten go at their own pace and to show them respect and patience. Encourage visitors to sit with your kitten or play with them, and gradually introduce them to different people over time, rather than in one go, to prevent overwhelming them. You can also have your visitors offer the kitten a treat to help build a positive association.

Introducing children 

When introducing your kitten to children, make sure you supervise the interaction, as children can be unpredictable. It’s important to teach children how to handle the kitten gently and pet them correctly. Keep in mind that children's noises and movements may be frightening to your kitten, so always take it slow and steady.

Introducing other pets

If you're looking to introduce your kitten to other animals, make sure you supervise their interactions closely. Start by allowing them to sniff each other through a door or barrier and slowly progress to supervised playtime. Be prepared that this process may take days (or weeks). Ensure that your kitten always has a safe refuge spot, such as on an elevated perch, that is out of reach of other animals. Also, always keep an eye on both animals’ body language to make sure neither your kitten or the other pet feels threatened or uncomfortable during the interaction. Introducing your kitten to a dog may require a slower, more gradual process than between cats, so be patient.

Exposing them to new sounds

If your kitten isn’t exposed to certain sounds in the first few months of their life, it’s more likely that they’ll become anxious or scared of them later on down the line. There are playlists available to help introduce your kitten to common sounds, such as sirens, thunder, fireworks and more. Just make sure you choose a calm moment to play them, such as when you’re petting your kitten gently or they’re relaxing in their safe space. Begin with the volume very low and only increase it slowly over time provided that your kitten remains unreactive.

What to keep an eye on during socialisation

While socialising your kitten is important, it's also crucial that you keep an eye on their behaviour, so you can adjust your approach accordingly. Signs that your kitten may be feeling stressed or scared include hiding, hissing, growling, and avoiding interaction. If you notice any of these behaviours, stop the socialisation session and try again another time, as it likely means that the kitten was presented with too much, too quickly. Remember, every kitten is different, and some may take longer to socialise than others. It’s much better to slowly and surely build a kitten’s confidence through positive socialisation experiences, than to have to rebuild their shattered confidence after a frightening experience.


Socialisation is a vital part of raising a confident and sociable cat. As a kitten owner, it’s your responsibility to ensure that your kitten receives the proper socialisation necessary to develop into a well-adjusted cat. Start socialising them early, introduce new people and pets gradually, monitor their behaviour, and show them love and affection. With patience and practice, your kitten will grow up into a happy and well-adjusted cat. For more tips and advice on caring for your kitten, check out our pet care blog.

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